One day, after making several complaints to me, he said, “I’ll allow fate decide the outcome of my relationship. “.
Why did he say that when he loved his woman so much? The reason is
that they just weren’t getting along and most times, the causes of their
fights wasn’t worth it. But good enough, after counselling them both,
they adjusted and today, they’re living happily as couples.
Talking about how to keep your relationship/marriage alive, there
are quite a load of things you should always do but here, I’ll mention
just 5 important tips that should help you build and maintain a sweet
relationship with your partner.
1. Make Time for Your Relationship/Marriage When Possible:
Try as much as possible to make time for your partner week after week. For couples, having a standing date night
can never be a bad idea. Even if you have kids or work week in week
out, that shouldn’t stop you. Communicate to your kids (if married),
friends, everyone, that this night is specially reserved for you and
your partner. Keep the date every week and make it your priority, no
matter what comes up.
2. Have Fun and do Pleasurable Things Together:
No matter how dry the fun might happen to be, sharing it and doing
pleasurable things together fosters intimacy. A relationship is all
about intimacy. Learn to share jokes, meals, funny movies, play times together – including outdoor activities. What matters most is that the activity is pleasurable and fun to you two.
3. Resolve Conflicts ASAP:
ASAP here means As Soon As Possible. I quite agree with you that it could be somewhat difficult to say sorry during
a heated argument with your partner but then, try to resolve it as
quickly as possible. However, it is easier to go your separate corners
after having a fight but you have to know that when conflicts lingers or stays unresolved,
it fosters long term hurt and resentment. It’s OK for you to disagree
with your partner but it’s extremely important to find a solution
quickly. I mean, as quickly as possible.
4. Keep the Romance Fire Burning:
In most relationships/marriage, romance isn’t an automatic
occurrence. Due to our daily activities, time constraints and everyday
pressures creates a tendency that robs us of spontaneity. In order to
overcome this natural hurdle, romance must be consciously created.
Remember, what keeps your relationship fresh and exciting is romance. It
keeps the two of you close and makes the bond stronger.
5. Constant Communication:
The key to a successful relationship/marriage is “Communication”. You don’t have to be far from each other before you consider communication skills to be essential in your relationship/marriage. When your spouse/partner is away at work, do check up on him/her. A simple phone call would definitely put a smile on his/her face. You can call to ask if he/she has had breakfast/launch – whatever the scenario might be, always try to build that communication platform. It brings creates a strong bond and makes you both happy.
The key to a successful relationship/marriage is “Communication”. You don’t have to be far from each other before you consider communication skills to be essential in your relationship/marriage. When your spouse/partner is away at work, do check up on him/her. A simple phone call would definitely put a smile on his/her face. You can call to ask if he/she has had breakfast/launch – whatever the scenario might be, always try to build that communication platform. It brings creates a strong bond and makes you both happy.
In summary, Learn to tolerate. Try and understand your partner and
don’t forget to resolve conflicts quickly. Implement the above tips and
you’ll certainly enjoy your relationship/marriage. Meanwhile, the
comment box is always open to air your views.
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